Whew, tax season’s over

April 20th, 2009

With another tax season over, I’m breathing a sigh of relief and getting a bit of my life back.  We must’ve been busy this year.  I can’t remember another April 15th that I was so anxious for (except, perhaps, for the year the earthquake extended tax season to April 30).  I didn’t realize just how stressed I felt as we neared the deadline, until Thursday April 16 when my office, the phone, and even email were silent.  Friday I had my energy back again.  Amazing.  Anyway, it’s time for an overall update.

Christian is doing very well in baseball.  If you’re not following Bill’s blog, why not?  All of the details, including the schedule and results, are updated after every game.  School is still a struggle, and we’re looking into tutoring for writing for the summer.  He enjoys reading Geronimo Stilton books, and Yotsuba books (which are comic book format translated into English from Korean and are read from right to left).  Christian’s really enjoying learning to cook.  He’s great at pancakes and made us breakfast unexpectedly one Saturday morning recently.  He followed directions to make brownies from a mix quite well (except I didn’t have the right oil out for him so they turned out weird – olive oil is not always an acceptable alternative to vegetable oil).  Today he’s making fudge, yum!

The kids did a great job each of the six weeks leading up to Easter presenting a new symbol of the season each week during the church service.  The boys read their lines slowly, clearly, with enviable poise.  Alyson memorized her lines and said them loud and clear (the four weeks she decided to participate – two of the weeks BJ had to say her line for her).  The last week, her line was really long, and we were really proud of her.  The kids do so well up in front of people.

This summer, the kids will be attending Skyhawks sports camps again.  They had a good time last year, and it’s an economical solution.  BJ was adamant that he didn’t want to go, until I made him an offer.  If they make it through the summer without whining, moaning, and complaining, we’ll spend a night at Great Wolf Lodge at the end of the summer.  BJ changed his tune quite rapidly.  I’d really like to manage a road trip to visit Angie in UT, but I haven’t figured that out yet.  We’ll have a week of VBS in July, and Christian wants to go to Bible Camp.  I’d love to go and take BJ and Alyson too, but I don’t think we can afford it.  I’m proud of Christian for being willing to go to a week-long camp without us.

BJ is having a blast being Bat Boy for Christian’s baseball team.  I think he enjoys being part of the team (particularly the snacks at the end of each game).  He’s a smart kid and does his homework easily, when we can convince him to do it.  He advised his brother to just rip it in half if he didn’t want to do it.  *sigh*  He’s become quite addicted to a computer game, so he frequently loses computer privileges.  He does enjoy reading, though, and can freqently be found sitting in front of the heater in the living room, reading any book that’s handy.  He’s into chapter books now, and is in the highest reading group in his class.  He claims to have read all of the Junie B Jones books.  He also likes Geronimo Stilton.

Alyson is still amazing me daily.  She’s often trying to sound out words.  She now writes Alyson, BJ, Mommy, Daddy, Christian, cat, dog, God and lovely without assistance.  She sounded out Doctor the other day and it was readable.  She called herself Doctor Alyson and said she wanted to be an eye doctor.  Go figure.  She can often be found sitting with a workbook and markers.  Or dancing.  Or playing with toys and games we had forgotten we had because the boys never played with such things.  It’s the workbooks that amaze me.  She can do word searches.  She can do fill-in-the letter activities which require her to look at words/pictures on the back of the book to figure out what letter is missing, and go back to fill it in.  She loves patterns and sees them in everything.  Today she decided she wanted to learn to play piano and learned the first three notes of the random song we had music out for.  She still loves to sing.  Her current favorite band is Paramore (particularly because they have a couple of songs on Rock Band).

We haven’t heard back from her school yet, but I’ll give them a call soon to see when testing should be scheduled.

I’m sure there’s more to say, but for now, hope you enjoyed the update 🙂  I’ll see if I can find some new pictures to add later.

Planning for Fall

March 24th, 2009

We toured North Sound Christian School today with Alyson.

She amazes me every day with her understanding and insights, her academic knowledge, her ever-questioning nature.  We’ve decided that even though she’ll be quite young, we need to give her the opportunity to apply for early admittance to Kindergarten.

We spent about an hour at the school today.  We love that it’s just blocks from home.  It’s a nice small K-6 Christian school.  The first classroom we had the opportunity to visit was really cool, built for kinesthetic learners.  Christian would really benefit from a class like that.  Working on reading and math skills while doing active balance activities seems to be something he’d respond to.  I guess that’s a down-side to putting Alyson in private school.  I’ll wish we had the funds to send all three there.

We also had the opportunity to see the library, gym, and multipurpose room.  We met with the kindergarten teacher (Alyson picked up a sponge and started cleaning the classroom) and Alyson got to have recess with the kindergartners.  She loved the playground the best.  The Kindergarten teacher has been there over 20 years and has a child of a former student in her class.  Everyone we ran into on the tour seemed to have had at least one child in her class.  All academics and extra curricular activities are in the mornings.  Afternoons are lunch, recess, fun stuff, and recess again.

So our next step is submitting the application, which includes an application, financial contract, parent participation contract, and a reference from one of our church leaders.  Then testing will be scheduled to assess her readiness.

If she’s accepted, she’ll be able to attend half time until she turns five, then she’ll be able to stay for the afternoons.  She’ll be on probation the first few weeks, where they’ll reserve the right to pull her out.  They also reserve the right to insist she repeat Kindergarten if that’s the teacher’s recommendation at the end of the year.

If she’s not accepted or they find she just isn’t ready, they also have a preschool program that we can look in to, and onsite daycare.

The principal did say his initial impression is that she’s young, but we all want what’s best for Alyson, so we’ll go through the testing, and if she does well, we’ll give her the chance to start in the fall as a kindergartner.

We’ll see how the testing goes, but honestly I feel we were led to this opportunity.  I had completely resigned myself that she’d be waiting another year until I got in touch with this school on a whim.  We’re praying that however it goes will be in Alyson’s best interests.

Chicago – days 3 & 4

February 28th, 2009

It snowed again Friday night.  I don’t think the temperature rose above 25 the whole time we were in Chicago.

We had a quiet morning Saturday.  The kids enjoyed some time in the pool before we got ready for the wedding.

The wedding location was beautiful. The boys waited patiently between pictures and the ceremony.

Christian & BJ

The ceremony itself was brief, and Bill and Edward provided music.  Everyone laughed when the Mission Impossible theme played as Brenda walked down the aisle.

Bill & Ed

Alyson was really looking forward to dancing and pouted when she had to wait.

Alyson pouting

She was thrilled when it was finally time for the reception. Grandma gave her a bouquet.

Alyson flowers

She danced with us in rotation… Grandma, Daddy,

Daddy Daughter

and Mommy

Alyson & Mommy

Christian even danced with Grandma and me

Grandma & Christian

Bill

Bill

The groom

The groom

Alyson was exhausted by the end of the night

Sleepy Alyson

Sunday morning, we all had a lovely brunch, and Alyson took a turn with the camera.

Brunch

She also got this great picture of Grandma

Grandma

Daddy, Alyson, and the newest member of our family, Puppy 🙂

Bill & Alyson & Puppy

We caught a 6:15 flight home, on which the boys finished their homework and Alyson slept most of the flight.  We got home late Sunday night.

Overall, we had a wonderful weekend.  I’d love to go back to Chicago for another few days and get to the museums and other sights we missed this time around.

Chicago – day 2

February 28th, 2009

The next morning, the hotel shuttled us to the Hinsdale train station, about 5 miles away. We enjoyed the train ride into the city. We took an express train that took about 30 minutes. From Union Station, we took a cab to Navy Pier.

Navy Pier

We enjoyed walking through the building. There is a stained glass museum that’s just incredible. There is also a garden with really cool fountains. Some fountains went in spurts that made it look like fish jumping. Some flowed in arches from one pool to another.

Garden

Navy Pier is also the home of the Chicago Children’s Museum, and we spent a few hours here.

Chicago Children's Museum

The kids had fun playing, climbing, building, and flying airplanes.

CCM Slide

The kids each got to spend $15 in the gift shop. Alyson picked a stuffed puppy, Christian got a yo-yo type toy, and BJ got another toy.

We had lunch at the biggest, busiest McDonalds I’ve ever seen at Navy Pier. From there, we took a cab to the Hancock building and went up to the 94th floor. A voice informed us we were on the fastest elevator in North America, making the trip in 40 seconds. Our ears popped in confirmation. Here are just a few pictures of the view.

Hancock view of city sprawl

The city

Hancock view of city

The kids listening to the audio tour

Kids at Hancock building

The silly kids pretending to be window-washers

Hancock silly kids

The view of Navy Pier from the Hancock Building

Hancock view of Navy Pier

I was amazed at just how BIG Lake Michigan is. It seems like an ocean.

Hancock Lake Michigan

Lakeshore Drive

Hancock Lakeshore Dr

Some of the amazing architecture

Architecture

We took a cab back to Union Station and then the train back to Hinsdale.

Train at Union Station

We felt right at home amongst Starbucks and Washington Mutual’s everywhere. We had a little time to kill before the hotel shuttle picked us up again. We spent the time at Starbucks and had a bit of a culture shock. The coffee shop filled with 30+ middle schoolers with Starbucks cards, designer clothes, and attitudes. It was quite an experience, and when we asked about it, we were told they come in every Friday afternoon.

After we got back, we got changed and headed off to the rehearsal dinner. Bill was happy to get his toast delivered and did a great job. The meal was wonderful.

Bill's Toast

BJ was really tired through most of the dinner, but he perked up later when we handed over the camera. Christian enjoyed playing with his new yo-yo. Alyson spent another meal drawing and talked Kelly’s ear off.

Dinner

Alyson thought it was funny to meet another Allison.

Alyson/Allison

Chicago – day 1

February 28th, 2009

I think I’m fired… I haven’t blogged in two months. To make up for it, here is my recount of our trip to Chicago. To those also following along on FaceBook, some of the pictures will be repeats for you, but I promise to add in a few new ones 🙂

We left at O Dark Thirty Thursday morning. After Hawaii, the kids act like seasoned travelers. Thankfully, we packed lighter for this trip. This was our first experience flying Southwest, and I’m not sure I’d choose them again in the future (at least when traveling as a family of 5). Southwest has open seating (sit wherever you want) and sorts travelers into three groups. Families with kids under the age of 5 are allowed to board in between the first and second groups, which was helpful, but Alyson won’t be ‘under 5’ much longer, and if we were in the third seating group, we would’ve had to split up.

On our flight to Midway, the boys sat with Bill and Alyson sat with me. Thankfully, the gentleman who took the aisle sit with us has grandkids and was very understanding when we had to wake him up every hour so Alyson could use the restroom. The boys spent the flight doing homework, playing DS, and watching movies. Alyson did stickers, colored, and played a little bit of DS.

Boys on the plane

We arrived about 12:30 and caught the hotel shuttle to the hotel, Marriott at Burr Ridge.

Marriott

The homes in Burr Ridge are amazing. Massive beautiful homes on large lots. Even three hours before check-in, the hotel had our room ready. We had a suite, which was great. The kids shared the living room and we had our own room. Here’s the view from our room:

Our view

After we settled in, we went for a walk (in the freezing cold). The hotel was near a shopping center that reminded us of Redmond Town Center, without all of the restaurants and bustling people. We went out to lunch at Cooper’s Hawk restaurant, and stopped in at Eddie Bauer. Mom will be proud, Alyson wanted a stuffed puppy. It was a Steiff.

BJ

In the evening, Brenda’s dad Bob picked us up to go to dinner at Giardino’s. He was our chauffeur for the weekend, and we were so grateful. With Alyson, we needed a carseat, so it was really thoughtful of them to make sure she was taken care of. We had a lovely meal and enjoyed getting to know Bob and Lynne better, and meeting Brenda’s brother and sister-in-law Kelly. Alyson took the opportunity to draw a map of her community. The big house is ours, the green one is Grandma’s, and you can see our church and daycare in between. Grandma helped her spell a few names as well.

Alyson's drawing

Christmas, continued…

December 29th, 2008

First, here’s the finished Gingerbread House of the year:

2008 Gingerbread House

Saturday, we really enjoyed digging out of the snow and seeing Dad & Karen at Auntie Kate’s house.  We were sad that so many family members weren’t able to make it, but we had a great time visiting with those that came.

When we got home, we had a small mountain of gifts to open.  The kids were SO excited.

Opening blankets

I think these blankets were the biggest hits.  The kids stayed wrapped in them all evening and have been using them every night.

Christian opening gifts

Alyson has figured out the ‘See what I got’ pose 🙂

Alyson posing

Christian’s Nerf gun and target were big hits.

Nerf is a hit

Playdough was a bit hit too.

Playdough

Alyson made snakes using only the girl colors of playdough.  Then she decided the snakes were spaghetti.

Alyson's spaghetti

We’ve all been enjoying BJ’s Boom Blox Wii game.  It’s a lot more fun than I expected.

BJ opening gifts

BJ got a little crazy around the Playdough.

Wild BJ w/ Playdough

Sunday, we enjoyed our church’s annual birthday party for Jesus.  It’s my favorite sunday school hour of the year because it’s fun to sing carols around the Christmas tree.  Alyson is so grown up this year.  She went around in the inner circle without us parents.

Singing around the tree

We still have one more Christmas celebration this coming weekend, but in the meantime, Happy New Year!

Christmas morning

December 26th, 2008

The magic of Christmas is alive and well.  The best part of Christmas this year for me was watching Alyson’s joy.  She is so much fun.  She loves Santa.  She was very concerned about making sure we had cookies to leave out for him.  She loved each and every gift.  She spent Christmas day caring for her new stuffed puppy, with her hair up in her ribbon pony tail holder, wearing her new necklaces, socks and slippers.  She did her new stamp pads and maze book and played Wii music.  She ate the majority of her candy.  She loved every single gift.

The boys also enjoyed their gifts, but the sheer joy that Alyson expresses made the day so much fun.

And now for the picture roundup…

The snow derailed most of our Christmas activities.  Here’s just how deep it got:

Snow in our back yard

As I think I’ve mentioned, we had to have our own little Bake Day at home this year.  Christian insisted that we had to make Peanut Butter balls.  We looked up a recipe and got to work.

Rolling peanut butter balls

I think the kids liked dipping them in chocolate the best.

Dipping peanut butter balls

Christmas eve we were blessed with a ride to the Candlelight service at church.  See that pink lump between Christian and I?  That’s Alyson.  She had a really hard time staying awake.  We were honored to be asked to light a candle and do a reading this year, and BJ did a wonderful job lighting the candle.

Candlelight Service

Christmas morning we were grateful to have Grandma Julie brave the white Christmas and join us.

White Christmas

Alyson was not exactly ready to start her day.

Sleepy Alyson

The boys were excited to get started on the presents, though.

Wall-E

Once she woke up, Alyson loved her Wii Music game.

Aly's Wii Music

BJ did great reading tags and passing out gifts.

Boys opening gifts

One more of Christian:

Christian - Christmas

Is this Christmas?

December 23rd, 2008

Every year, we sing songs about a white Christmas.  In Seattle, we even think, “What a nice idea” as we sing it.

BJ in the snow

This year has the makings to be the worst Christmas ever.  We’ve been essentially snowed in for a week.  Have you any idea how claustrophobic a home can feel when stranded there with three exuberant children?

We have chains for the car, but it’s still not safe to leave.

We missed our church’s birthday party for Jesus (although it’s been rescheduled to next week, it’ll be odd to sing carols the weekend AFTER Christmas).  We missed Bake Day and the wonderful family time that goes with it.  It looks like we’re going to miss Christmas Eve in Arlington.  I can’t remember the last time we’ve missed that.  We might miss the candlelight service.  We have gifts for the kids stuck on UPS trucks in Redmond.  Our moms might not make it to our home for Christmas day.

I’m trying not to let it get to me.  I’m trying to enjoy the beauty of the snow, particularly the 12+ inches still undisturbed on our outdoor furniture out back, because this much is truly rare here.  I believe God’s reminding us to be prepared for emergencies (we aren’t).  And we’ve taken the opportunity to make cookies here at home, which the kids shared with our neighbors today.  (Our budding entrepreneur BJ tried to bill me $6 in delivery fees.)

Friday it’s supposed to rain.  I’ve vowed to never complain about the rain again.  You’re welcome to remind me how sore I am after walking to work yesterday and shoveling snow the day before.

Meanwhile, we’re home, using our last opportunities of the year to threaten that Santa won’t bring gifts if the floor’s a mess, and trying to keep in mind what this holiday is really about.

I wish everyone a very Merry Christmas, and a happy New Year.

The Greatest Gift

December 14th, 2008

Despite the snow and ice and deep freeze outside, we had a lovely time at our annual church Christmas program.  The kids were toys in a toy shop this year, trying to figure out what it meant to be a gift.

Polly Pocket

Alyson was Polly Pocket.  A silent, dancing Polly Pocket.  She actually did sing a little bit, but she refused to say her line and spent the majority of the program twirling around the stage.  It’s a good thing that A) she’s cute and B) I didn’t have duct tape.

Spaceman Spiff

BJ was Spaceman Spiff and he did a fantastic job!  His work in speech has really paid off.  He spoke clearly and loudly (but not too loudly).  And he was in control of himself the whole program.  He also sang wonderfully.  When his mic was having issues, he did a wonderful job of staying calm and repeating his line.  Nothing really flustered him.

GI Joe

GI Joe, oops, Christian really stepped up to be one of the stars of the show this year.  It’s so odd for us to see Christian and his friend Alivia step into the lead roles that Nathaniel and Karisa have held throughout our years at Grace.  He had a lot of lines this year.  He did get a little lost in one of his first lines but recovered quickly.  He even ad-libbed a little, added in a phrase that was requested at this morning’s rehearsal, and sang a verse solo, loud and clear.  He said he was nervous, but he sure didn’t show it.  He acts like a pro up there.  He did a fantastic job.

As a side note, I didn’t realize his costume only had the vest.  I mentioned to him maybe we could’ve chosen his t-shirt better.  He replied, “This one’s perfect.  The tag says Old Navy”.  LOL!

Christian and BJ singing

We’re so proud of the kids (particularly the two that did what they were supposed to).  We were sad that so many family members weren’t able to make it this year, but perhaps there will be an Easter program this year(?).

On a side note, everyone is invited to two more Christmas events at our church:

Next Sunday, 12/21, 9:15 am is the Birthday Party for Jesus.  It’s one of my favorite hours of the year with carols sung around the Christmas tree.  I can’t seem to get enough of Christmas carols.

Christmas eve, 11:00 pm is the Candlelight service.  We usually bring the kids in their pajamas, although all three stayed awake last year and enjoyed singing carols by candlelight after a few readings.

We wish you all a very merry Christmas!

Christian and school

December 14th, 2008

Just a short update on Christian and school.  It’s been pointed out that I did not mention Christian’s report card.  Report card day was rather traumatic in our house this time around and I really didn’t want to talk about it.  Honestly, his report card was better than we expected.  He got 3s in most subjects (meets expectations).  He got a 4 in PE, same as BJ.  He only scored Occasionally in the Effort categories, and Rarely for Independent Work Skills.  He got 1s in reading and writing because he didn’t turn in any work (or what he did turn in was incomplete).

Christian didn’t take it well and overall had a really awful day that day.

Oddly, the next day he was like a different kid.  He had a map of WA State due the next day.  Apparently it had been assigned weeks before.  He got home from school and was enthusiastic about completing it.  When he showed me, unfortunately I had to tell him he needed to start over from scratch.  It was just a mess.  He did throw a little bit of a fit, but I think he understood.  This time, he typed out the 31 locations he was supposed to identify and while I ran to Office Depot to buy 11 x 17 paper for him to retrace it (and crayons, and white-out), he printed them, cut them apart, and figured out with Bill where they were really supposed to go.

He took the next two hours and re-traced the state, glued down all of the names, colored the whole thing, and wrote out his legend more neatly than I’ve seen him write in a while.

Here’s his WA State map:

Christian's WA State map

Apparently, four of the labels aren’t quite in the right place, but he said his teacher told him he did a good job, and he got to make a big sugar cookie just like it and ate it all 🙂

On another fun note, his Reflections project will be going on to the next level of judging.  Who knew?  It really is genius, though.  I have watched it many times and it’s so short it just never seems to get old 🙂